How To Use A Prostate Massager
Clean
Empty the bowels and use an anal douche before playing with a partner to spare any embarrassing poo episodes. If you have cleaned out with a douche you can be confident that your partner will not encounter anything gross.
Relax
Ok so the biggest problem here is getting used to having something inserted in your butt, for straight men they may fight against it but with persistence the rewards are great. So relax, relax, relax and take your time. You cannot rush this process make sure you have an hour or two alone or with your partner to enjoy this new experience.
Lube
The anal passage does not produce any natural lubrication so using a sex lube is totally essential. Think of trying to get a tight ring off a finger: impossible without soap. Lube will make the difference between being able to get the prostate massager in or not.
Insert
Once you're fully aroused (don't even try till then) and have applied lube to your butt, and to the prostate massager toy, begin to insert into your hole. Try lying on your side with one or two knees to your chest. Check the diagram and make sure you have the toy the right way round.
Massage
For the first time it can feel really strange and get some getting used to. Don't give up too quickly if it freaks you out. Relax, breathe and just give it 5-10 minutes to get used to it being there. Let your ass relax. An important point to bear in mind is that the prostate massager is not a sex toy designed to be pumped in and out manually like a dildo. The massager should sit there without manipulation.
Contract
Once you have become used to the sensation start to contract the muscles around the massager, aiming for the pelvic floor muscles. The sphincter will start to twitch and quiver, this is normal. The contraction of the muscles will move the prostate massager sex toy enough to stimulate the prostate on its own.
Play
And then you can keep experimenting with sensations that feel good, for first timers this can all feel new and different but exciting and arousing. If you are on your own you can just use the contractions of the massager and stimulation on the p-spot to achieve an orgasm or play and wank yourself at the same time. If with a partner you can get a blow job or let them wank you or if you are really up for it you can try having full on sex (be careful not to lie down or bang the toy on the bed).
Experiment
Everybody will react differently to the prostate massager and the key is anything goes as long as it feels good. If it hurts don't do it. Toss your preconceptions and inhibitions outta the window and open yourself up to the potential of THE best orgasm you have ever experienced.
When finished wash your prostate massager toy very, very thoroughly. Do not share your toy without washing in between partners for risk of bacteria and cross infection. Eughh.
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